In this sermon Forsaking All Others, Jesus, I Want You, If you are separated from God due to someone's offense, then you never really were united to Jesus anyway.  Or, you never KEPT your love for Him strong. It does not matter what we assume God wants. It matters what His word says He wants. When we truly love God we won't assume anything, anyway. True love gives one the sense that in order to please another, you need to know what that other is pleased with. Nothing is too much for you to do. When you learn it is what the one you love desires. People who try to get away with carnality and worldliness, simply never fell in love with God. Those who truly love Jesus, cannot do enough for Him.