In this sermon Thank God for the miracle of repentance, you may desire a certain person as a mate, but you had better make sure that is God’s will for your life. Not knowing what type of person they are. Know those that labor among you. That’s now just for ministers. Now those who you develop relationships with. Watch how they live their lives before you tie the knot. If you have any reservations, withdraw and seek God until you find the person who brings you a total settled peace.  Not a perfect person. Don’t expect them to be any more perfect than yourself, but a person who brings you a total settled peace.  If you think that you might regret marrying them for any reason, withdraw and just be friends.